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Here is the draft of a post from early Novermber 2013 that never got published:

Shark Fishing after "work"

Well I've been doing this full-time, "big girl" job thing for a month and --oh who am I kidding? This isn't a real job! There's no way! I wake up in a cottage under palm trees, eat all my meals in an open air kitchen, and live on an island. Because this is off-season, I rarely work from 9am to 5pm...it's more like 9am until whenever-something-more-fun-comes-along. Last week I was lucky enough to be on the water for a couple hours Thursday-Sunday! Yesterday I skipped out of work at 2:30 to go diving!
Whatever my next gig is, there's no way this kind of behavior is going to fly. I'm getting spoiled.
Since the Epic Mother-Daughter Road Trip of 2013, I have been busy! Between all that fun stuff, I've re-designed the website and most of our flyers/brochures, went to a science teacher conference, and worked with prospective parents and teachers to get more groups to the island. I've also been helping with the hiring process for the 2014 interns. It's weird to be looking at applicants for my old job! Especially when most of these people are my age...or older. How am I supposed to be their boss?
Upcoming projects include (but are not limited to) designing new programs, updating the programs we already have with facts from 2013, and expanding our curriculum cater to younger/older groups. These tasks seem a little daunting right now, so I'm putting them off...

and that's it. I honestly don't remember why I never got around to finishing the post, or publishing it for that matter, but I'm assuming that "daunting list of tasks" probably had something to do with it.
Sploiler Alert: off season work continued to be mostly fun and games, the intern search went differently than I had planned (in both 2014 and 2015), and the website update still wasn't complete when I left my position with Pigeon Key in early 2015. The project was completed by my successor and friend, Jason, and you can see his beautiful results here!

Anyway, although island life was all hunky dory on the surface, behind the scenes it has been a rough couple of years. Even though my title was "Education Director" I rarely participated in any educating. I was a secretary, office manager, intern coordinator, social media executive, and many other roles, but none of them felt fulfilling. This lack of fulfillment was compounded by the fact that I did not enjoy or agree with the people whom I worked for on Pigeon Key, and it got really lonely living out on that tiny island. Many days it felt like my life was on pause--my friends back home were getting engaged and buying homes, and I was sharing a shack with geckos and enduring conversations about making sure we only hired "hot" interns. In early 2015 I was offered an Assistant Manager position at a new Aquarium in the Florida Keys, so I quickly jumped at the chance to get in to town and hopefully press play on my life.
For the first few months things went really well! Being a part of the managerial team of a new business meant

Feeding Spotty the Spotted Eagle Ray - not technically
part of my job...but super awesome!

that I could really expand the position in to whatever I wanted. I worked on developing field trip programming, internship opportunities, and beefing out the aquarium's social media presence. I was able to institute some much-needed staff morale boosting initiatives, and enjoyed the convenience of not having to take a golf cart two mile into town to accomplish a simple task like grocery shopping. I became an active volunteer at the local animal shelter, and even fell in love!
However, after the initial excitement wore off I found myself in the same career-slump as before. The most rewarding parts of my day were when I actually wasn't doing my job, but when I got stopped by a guest's questions on my way back to the office and was able to interact with and educate people about the wonders of the marine world. These "teachable moments" were few and far between, but they were the highlights of my day!

Since graduation, several of my friends have spent their time working for philanthropic organizations like Americorps and the Fullbright Program, and it was through hearing their stories that I was inspired to apply for Teach for America. After a very long application process, I learned recently that I've been accepted as a 2016 Teach for America Corps member in Kansas City, MO. I'll most likely be teaching high school biology in the fall, and I can't wait to get started! For now, I'm crashing in Jim and Joan's basement while I wait for training to begin in the spring. I can't wait to see what this next chapter of the EmVenture brings!

Holy Recap, Batman!

As my loving father reminded me a few days ago...I haven't posted since May.

Whoops.

Sharing Invertebrates with students
(above), and "working" (below)

There have definitely been a ton of blog-worthy moments in the past 3 months, but my excuse for not publishing them on the internet is that I've been too busy experiencing them to write them down!

"the office"

For literally the entire month of June we had a group on the island. I don't mean one group of students stayed for a month, I mean one would stay for a couple days, leave at 10am, we'd clean like crazy people, and welcome the next group at 4pm the same day. In between the days of crazy cleaning we educated groups from all over the country--California, Pennsylvania, and Arizona sent representatives--about the wonders of Marine Science. Week after week we explored the island, kayaked through mangroves, and watched as students who were terrified of putting a toe in the water on day one transformed into kids who couldn't dive off the snorkel boat fast enough out at the reef. It was exhausting, overwhelming, and wonderful.

After a weekend of blowing off steam sleeping, July 1st found us greeting parents and kids for week one of Pigeon Key Marine Science Summer Camp. We run a day and overnight camp together (everyone does the same activities during the day, but we send the day campers home on the ferry at 4:30pm) with educational programs in the morning, and hours of jumping off the dock more traditional camp activities in the afternoon.

Our proud campers with their self-caught lobster dinner!

Taking a break from dock jumping
to practice cheerleading

Our campers learn to identify reef fish, dissect a squid, the importance of mangrove ecosystems, and the ins-and-outs of a bonnethead shark. They also jump off the dock, compete in all-camp kickball, jump off the dock, play capture the flag, jump off the dock, do a pie-in-the-face relay race, jump off the dock, and swim through an underwater obstacle course. After sending the day campers off, the overnight campers got to pick their activity each night.  They usually chose to spend their evenings shark fishing, but we also had movie night (which I volunteered to supervise when Harry Potter was selected as the feature film), a campfire (record number of s'mores eaten: 13), and ultimate Frisbee. There's never a dull moment at summer camp, and bonus: the staff gets a full weekend off between each!

The fruits of shark fishing!

Now we're in August. Which is crazy (didn't I just get here in February aka yesterday?). We finished our last summer camp on the 9th, went day-drinking in Key West had an intern bonding retreat , and have spent the last week edging sidewalks, painting picnic tables, and bleaching every conceivable surface on this island. I swear it will be months before I stop getting whiffs of bleach every time I tuck my hair behind my ears...We also represented the Pigeon Key Foundation at the Marathon Chamber of Commerce's "After Hours" gathering! Local businesses take turns hosting, and people from the community are invited to come, eat, drink and be merry (very very merry when all the booze is free!). This month, the Community Theater played host, so everyone had to wear a hat. We put Jason in an army hat and the local ladies just about lost it--he was a good sport until his cheeks got pinched!
it

It's crazy to think my internship here is drawing to a close. After 6 months of blood, sweat, tears, chaos, laughter, and hard work, I'll be packing my things and flying home to Bloomington on August 26th.

But this is not where the Emventure ends! I am packing my things only to move them across the island, and I'll only be in Bloomington for about a month before heading back down to Pigeon Key. I am excited to say that when I come back in September, it will be as the Foundation and Marine Science Center's newest Education Director. I am nervous and anxious and over the moon excited about this opportunity, and I can't wait to share my trials, tribulations, and successes with all of you!

...and hopefully more frequently than once every three months :)

 

 

Jesus loves me this I know...

...not only does the Bible tell me so, but I am frequently blessed with moments in real life that are perfect assurances of His awesome love.

3hoFo ladies doing typical grad things together

So there have been moments throughout this internship experience that, despite my initial confidence, I have really questioned my decision to graduate and leave Madison early (most of these moments come while looking at pictures on Facebook of my friends having a blast doing classic college senior-y things). Spring in Madison is one of the most beautiful things in the world...hanging out on the Terrace, sleeping on Bascom, (no) Mifflin, everything. And especially this weekend, with it being graduation, the Facebook pictures were killing me. Everyone being all nostalgic in their cap and gowns, posing with Abe, hugging each other...I did all of that by myself and I've been feeling insanely jealous that all my friends are doing it together. Plus I've been really missing my Madison home a lot lately.

I've been asking myself...do all these sad emotions and feelings of regret mean that I made the wrong decision? Did I just get so excited when I saw the post for this internship that I ignored signs that Pigeon Key wasn't in His plan? Am I even supposed to be here right now?

And then it all came together a few days ago.

For the past week we've had an amazing group of 8th graders on island. They're from Cincinnati, Ohio and for most of them this trip was their first time on an airplane, at a beach, in the ocean, etc. Some of them had little to no swimming experience. Few of them had ever seen any of our invertebrates in person before. But despite their lack of experience, they all jumped right in. Each of them embraced the experience whole-heartedly, shattering comfort zones and building friendships that (I hope) will carry them through high school. By the end of the week not only were they comfortable swimmers, they were diving down 12ft to get a closer look at the reef! And by the end of the week each had made a permanent home in my heart.
Because this is their "finale" field trip for their middle school experience, the teachers and chaperones always so a really neat closing ceremony for the students. The kids spend the evening saying nice things to each other and talking about their hopes, dreams, and fears for high school. Then the teachers surprise the students with handwritten letters from their parents, and they spread out over the island to read and reflect. During all of this, the Pigeon Key staff generally stays out of their way (for the interns this means hiding in the office, the one place with internet). However this year, one teacher came to find us after the students were done with their parent letters

"Hey guys," she said, peeking her head into the office, "this is new for us, but the kids have requested that you guys join us for the last part of our closing ceremony." We all jumped up, and followed her to the meal tent.

After much organization, we followed the students as they silently processed out to the dock. We all sat in kind of a modified circle as the same teacher read a poem that beautifully summed up the PK experience from the eyes of an 8th grader. Then the teachers invited all of us to stand up one at a time and receive a blessing (public school style). After each intern had a moment with the teachers we said some silent goodbyes to the students for the night and processed back down the dock.

I don't know about you, but I found so many parallels to a graduation ceremony in there that it was like Jesus was flashing neon signs at me...Calm down little bird, you are in the right place. Do you think I would ever steer you wrong?

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Jeremiah 29:11

 

Now considering that I hadn't really gotten a full 8 hours of sleep in a week, and I'd been inner turmoil-ing about my life decision for twice that, it should come as no surprise to those who know me well that I was a crying mess for all of this. Sleep-deprivation and relief will do that to a person!

Why 5th Graders are the Best

So for the past few days, the island has been hosting 80 5th graders. Yes, you read that correctly, 80 5th graders. All from an orthodox Jewish private school in North Miami Beach (read: money money money...MONAAYY). A few hilarious conversations arose from our obvious socioeconomic differences...

Six of the girls and I discussing how we learned Spanish...
Girl 1: Well my family is from Venezuela, but I learned Spanish from my nanny. She's from Nicaragua.
Girl 2: Yeah, my mom and I speak it too because we're from Columbia, but my nanny is from Panama. She only knows Spanish.
Girl 3: My nanny is from Guatemala, or one of those poor countries. All nannies are from poor countries. She taught me Spanish...Emily did you learn Spanish from your nanny?
Me (in complete disbelief by this point): Guys, I never had a nanny! I was a nanny before I came here actually...
Girl 1: Oh my gosh, Emily you should come back to Miami and be MY nanny!

After I answered a phone call from my boss...
Student: what is that?
Me: What is what? oh, my phone?
Student (shocked): that's a PHONE?! I've only seen those in old movies! Wow! Dude...you should buy an iphone. I'm getting the iphone6!
Me: wait, I thought we were on the iphone5?
Student: Oh, I'm on the pre-release list.

But despite these differences, the thing I love about elementary school students is that they're still very much kids. They didn't care what my phone looked like, or that my sunglasses are all less than $10, they just want to hang out and play. We hunted for crabs and sea urchins in the tide pool, talked about 1D and Justin Beiber (who is so on his way OUT apparently), just like I did with the group from the middle-of-nowhere north Florida public school that was here last week. The other thing that I love about 5th graders is that they've still got that streak of brutal honesty that hasn't been hushed by manners yet...

Walking down the bridge with all the girls so their teacher can get a sunset group shot, one of the girls has her arm slung around my waist because she's too short to reach my shoulders...
Girl (squeezing my hip): Emily...is that your fat?
Me (mildly mortified): Hey! Yeah, it's just a little...squish...
Girl (hugging me tightly): I don't care, you're beautiful! and comfortable!


I LOVE 5th graders.

What a Whirlwind

So our first three groups have come and gone and holy crap, time is flying. I can't believe I've already been here for 2.5 months! Where has the time gone?! Oh yeah, that's right...consumed by hours of painting, tree trimming, raking, scrubbing and bleaching.

But no more!

Real education season is upon us, and our first three groups were just a review. The first week of middle schoolers was awesome. Sure they were shrill, loud, and had the energy of 10 energizer bunnies (each!), but the 6th graders were enthusiastic about everything. From breakfast to snorkeling at the reef to sitting in a classroom learning about Marine Habitats, they were totally 100% in to it. I loved having them on the island. Our next two groups, both high school juniors/seniors, were quite a bit of a slow down. They were interested, but couldn't be too interested. The "it's not cool to be too into anything" mentality was definitely present for these two groups, and it made me a little sad. However, I loved getting to chat with them about all the stuff I loved in high school--friends, how their football team did, prom, etc. We have another high school coming this week from a Christian Academy and I'm hoping that we'll get to do a little praise and worship on the dock every morning...but we'll see!

Social Media Mavens

My intern friend, Melanie, and I have been put in charge of modernizing, consolidating, and regularly updating Pigeon Key's social media presence! You can like our Facebook page or follow us on Twitter for the most up to date information on day to day activities on the island, and to get a better glimpse at what I'm doing on a regular basis.

I really like this because it gives me more excuses to hang out in the only building with WiFi and rock out to country music in my headphones...did I mention that nobody else on this whole island likes country??



I found a friend in the brush pile on Burn Day!
A 3 foot corn snake, whom I named Penelope.

The past couple of weeks have been mostly manual labor. We burned a huge pile of brush and other debris that has been accumulating on the island since July...and then the next day, after planting new shrubberies and baby palms around the island, dug up all the ash from the fire pit and spread it around as fertilizer. Then the next day my boss decided he wanted the fire pit moved...3 whole feet. The day after that we had to uproot and move some plants...3 whole feet. In the next week we had to clear out all the misc junk from underneath one building and move it underneath another building...yep you guessed it! 3 whole feet away. I'm beginning to think that they're just running out of ways to keep us busy from 9-5...
Luckily groups are starting to trickle in! We had two facility rental groups and, for my favorite day so far, a couple troops of Girl Scouts from the south Miami. It was chilly (for the Keys), but the girls were so excited about everything the island had to offer. From chasing Buddy around, to going hip deep in the water for tide pooling, to the hotdogs we had for lunch they were pumped to be there. Those Girl Scouts were a great reminder of why I got myself into this!



Allison sipping some St. Patty's
beverage from my boss's...hat.

But its not hard work all the time! Our bosses make sure that there's plenty of time for us to enjoy the Keys' lifestyle (which, from my understanding, means that you spend more on your liquor store bill than your grocery bill...I have yet to accomplish this). From island croquet, to coconut bocce, to celebrating St. Patty's, these people know how to enjoy their libations! For fun we also frequent Kmart, Publix, go snorkeling to chase tropical fish lobster hunting with our boss, and last weekend took a road trip to Key Largo to feed tarpon (fast forward in the clip a little bit) and see what the northernmost key had to offer.


That tarpon snatched a fish right out of
my hand!

Yesterday I made scotcharoos for my coworkers...can you believe none of these people had ever even heard of this magical dessert before?! I'm adding them to my ever-growing list of things that I'm discovering are strictly Minnesotan...pop, Biffys, the pronunciation of bagels, and now scotcharoos. My coworkers were skeptical (how anyone can be skeptical of a chocolate/butterscotch/peanut butter combo, I'll never understand), but considering that there is less than half a pan left this morning, I feel like I've created a new group of believers.



This week we’re busy preparing for the ribbon cutting ceremony for our new solar power system on Friday. The system has been in place for about two months, and since everything seems to be going according to plan (we run on solar energy for about 22 hours per day) we’re showing it off to the public. And by public, I mean all the big wigs from our foundation’s board, the chamber of commerce, etc. This will be the first time that so many big names (and deep pockets) have all been on the island at the same time in about a decade, so my bosses are pretty nervous. I’m estimating that we’ll be asked to move s pile of something 3ft about 5 times per day this week…and let’s be real, there are only so many feet on the island. I can more or less guarantee that everything will end up right back where it started.

 

Because that’s how we do on PK.



Forrest Gump

"My momma always said, 'Life was like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get."

Forrest Gump's momma must have been talking about life on Pigeon Key, because other than a 9am start to your work day, nothing else is really guaranteed. The power might be on when you want to take a shower, the water might be running when you try to flush the toilet, and there's a slim-to-none chance that the internet and power will be running simultaneously when you need to e-mail your landlord...(don't worry parents, I got that one squared away!)
Everything is in a mild state of disrepair, but life is simple. There are some constants, like sunshine, ocean breezes, and going to bed feeling fulfilled (read: exhausted) after a day of hard work. There is also a ferry that drops off boat loads of tourists  who come to the island for historical tours every 2 hours. They love to ask us questions about what a bunch of kids in their early 20's are doing on the island, and the facial expressions when we say that we'll be here for 6 months are priceless.

The sun setting over the PK Lounge after a long day

Intern duties range from raking leaves to clearing rocks from the solar panel area with incarcerated individuals. Yesterday intern duties meant deep cleaning one of the student cabins (thanks mom, for teaching me the appreciation of dust-free baseboards from a young age!). One down, four to go!
I had fun joking that we were using our college degrees to do jobs usually filled by people who didn't graduate high school...my intern friend with a vey very expensive college degree did not find me amusing.

This past weekend, intern duties found us "volunteering" at the Pigeon Key Art Festival, an annual fundraiser that gets the whole community involved in the welfare of the island. We ran from sun up to sun down (read: 9-5) working the Pigeon Key Gift Shop booth, helping the burger stand make change, and filling in wherever we were needed. I was exhausted by the time Sunday night rolled around, but we raised a ton of money for the island, so that's good news. Also we were allowed to take Monday off!

Monday night found all of us on the dock with our boss, Chris, chopping up fish heads. I can only imagine Elle's surprise when she called me from WI and I said "Hang on can I call you back? I'm about to go shark fishing!"

We finished chopping up the heads and threw them in the bay to chum up the waters. Chris baited a couple hooks with some fresh (read: bloody) fish, and we set them in the rod holders to wait. Within a few minutes we heard a loud whiiiirrrrrrr as a shark tried to snatch the bait off the line closest to me and take it out to sea.
"Grab it, grab it!" shouted Chris, "Don't let him take all my line!"
In the next adrenaline-fueled 20 minutes, I successfully reeled in the shark, let the shark get stuck on a buoy, watched as Chris kayaked out to said buoy and herded the shark into untangling itself, and finished bringing in my first lemon shark. Chris pulled her up on the dock, freed the hook from her mouth, and then let me wrangle her into a posing position for some proof--I mean photos! She was about 30lbs and I named her Lois. Then I tossed her back in to the water (nose first) and watched her streak away from the dock. It was magical...I think some fist pumps may have happened.

"Hey Lois, say cheese!"